It does not matter one tiny fuckling....

whether your gay, bi or str8.

 The only thing that really matters 

in this life is that your able to stand up, 

as a celebration of masculinity 

and shout, 

very very very loudly,

I am a good man, 

I am a good fucking man.

I haven't got a bad bone in my body

i have no malice, no bad ideas

i only want to  do

to say

to be

to radiate

to celebrate 

all that is me... 

i dont really hav fabtasies about other guys i hav a girl friend and have fentasies about doin stuff with her, but wihtout a doubt i hav had my moments, i mean i hav had my thoughts but i think i am str8 wat am i saying i no i am. curious is a strong word but is so true everybody has a gay part of therer body and those who are gay have there dicks as there gay part or there mind. me personally i hav the dirtiest mind in the world i can picture alsorts of things. I love when my wife fingers my anal, she has me lay on my stomach on a pillow and then inserts her finger in my ass. She watches but doesnt touch my cock. She then fingers me until I cum all over the pillow flo

Hello darkness, my old friend

I've come to talk with you again

Because a vision softly creeping

Left its seeds while I was sleeping

And the vision that was planted in my brain

Still remains

Within the sound of silence

In restless dreams I walked alone

Narrow streets of cobblestone

'Neath the halo of a street lamp

I turned my collar to the cold and damp

When my eyes were stabbed by the flash of a neon light

That split the night

And touched the sound of silence

And in the naked light I saw

Ten thousand people, maybe more

People talking without speaking

People hearing without listening

People writing songs that voices never share

And no one dared

Disturb the sound of silence

"Fools", said I, "You do not know

Silence like a cancer grows

Hear my words that I might teach you

Take my arms that I might reach you"

But my words, like silent raindrops fell

And echoed

In the wells of silence

And the people bowed and prayed

To the neon god they made

And the sign flashed out its warning

In the words that it was forming

And the sign said, "The words of the prophets are written on the subway walls

And tenement halls"

And whispered in the sounds of silence

I considered myself strictly straight but the most intense sexual experience I had was with my best m8 on a boys weekend! He crashed at our hotel after the rugby and we ended up sleeping off the piss in bed. I woke up to find his huge cock sliding between my ass cheeks and balls while he massaged my cock. Initially I thought 'Wot the Fuck?' But we had a fantastic night sucking and wanking each other to orgasm. We never talked about it after but I gotta say I often think about that night. Who says you're either one way or the other? I certainly don't any more! STEVE_NZ

Hey, I love your website!! :) okay, so I need some help. I think I'm gay but I am not sure. I am physically attracted to men and women. But guys really get me hard, harder than girls. I really need some advice please :)

0	Exclusively heterosexual	The reason that this category is given the number "0"  is that it refers to the number of men who actually fit into this category
1	Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual	This category often refers to men who are XWE, and occassionally like other men to worship their cock.
2	Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual	The occassional cocksucker, or tight hole fucker.
3	Equally heterosexual and homosexual	How God made us, our natural state.
4	Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual	How society makes us
5	Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual	Some gay men will only have sex with women, if her husband has a huge cock
6	Exclusively homosexual	A lie_fstyle?

I'm 100% absolutely certain you are not gay, the only thing you are m8 is, fucking honest. Thats it. Be what you is, cause if you be what you aint, you aint what you is. Acknowledge all parts of your sexuality, even the tiny parts. It's part of what makes you, you, it's the fucking essence of you. If you do not it will damage you. I once had a very old man cumm to see me. A few months short of his 90th. birthday. He was not going to see that day, he was very ill. He had seen a small "ad" of mine in a local newspaper. He had gone through his life always desiring men but had never had the courage to do anything about it. After a while chatting about the war and stuff he looked at me and said, "I've left it too late. Haven't I? I wanted to lie. But I couldn't. The next day I went out and done something that I would not usually have had the courage to do. It had a profound effect on me. Sexually I am on fire. I am amazed at how much pleasure my body, mind and soul can give and recieve. If you can put a relevant label on that I will give you a prize. All men are capable of loving another man. We are all capable of hugging another man. We are all capable of cuddling another man. We are capable of being intimate, yes even with another man.

Straight men are usually better at man to man sex because it's not something they have to do it's something they choose to do. It's certainly not what you would discuss with your mates down the pub on a Saturday night. But because of the nature of what I do for a living I am very aware that in reality it's a lot more common than most str8 men care to admit. For most str8 men it's something they think of while masturbating, or having sex. It remains a very private fantasy. Others will experiment; they will occasionally feel a real need to have physical contact with another man, or simply to touch another man and his cock. Some men are very disturbed by this tiny part of their sexuality and it becomes a very big issue for them. These men often become very loud, very homophobic. So the next time you hear some guy shouting about "queers" and all that, don't be too harsh on him just smile and politely tell him you understand what his problem is. We are told at adolescence that it's NORMAL to have fantasies about other blokes while wanking. Many of us will have played the jerk-off games with other young men while still at school. Our teenage years are a time of great curiosity. We hang around in gangs. The mates we would like to be similar to will appear more attractive, and at a time of life when everything is interesting and horny, this emotion can manifest itself as a lovely stiff cock. So if it's ok when we are teenagers, what's wrong with it when we are older? Who sets the fucking agenda anyway!

BRAVO! Atlast somebody who understands what being a man is all about. I do wish you could set up practice in the United States. I LOVE the idea of the Teddy Bear Hug" I may try putting in an ad with that emphasis and see if I have any luck with it. I call myself  Homosexual, but I think a better term is "Homoerotic" -- like you I do place my emphasis on pleasing my man and I take that's you emphais as well, altough I doubt if I'd be a good as you. I'd a relief to know I'm not the only one who thinks like this. No real emphais on sex, but on loving. THANKS MUCH. If I ever your our way, I'll look you up  Bez

We are told as liberated sexual beings, that swingers for example never allow male to male contact, even if you accidentally bump into another man, it's a fucking disaster. Liberated, yes of course as long his wife doesn't enjoy herself, spiritually, because that would take a man, yes a man that had so much bollox, that he could be comfortable in just touching another man's cock as it slowly slid into HIS wife's pussy. Just look at any straight porn, its all very cock focused. When showering after the gym or swimming, or even when having a piss in a public toilet we all have a little peep. Even though there may not be any desire for actual contact it's as if the mind has taken a photo of that "erotic image" and can flash back to have another look at any time. We may wonder about what type of sex the owner of the "image" enjoys. We may get sexually aroused thinking about him shagging his wife. That doesn't mean we want to have a gay relationship with him, even though just before you "cumm" you think about putting his cock in your mouth. You could say I was basically gay that doesn't stop me from having occasional sex with women. I am often complemented on my performances. My usual reply is, "well, not bad for a queer" That makes women feel good about themselves. Even a gay man fancies them and is so aroused by them that they have just had a good tantric pussy massage. For similar reasons gay men often fantasize about being imtimate with a str8 man. I was always of the assumption that every-one was bisexual bi/ seb cox

I realised something about myself. I admitted something to myself. I prefer men. It's not that I don't like women, but I am attracted by men first, women second. Fact. Period. It's not like "Oh gosh, I never knew", more about recognising and owning myself, my behaviour, my interests. It's about desire and possibility and heartbreak, about hope and fear, about self-esteem and self-acceptance. I don't feel gay, don't identify with "gay", don't want to be associated with "gay", yet if I prefer my own sex for sex, what choices do I have? Love the site - long may you prosper Anon

When someone ask me if I am straight, gay or bisexual, I tell them I am neither of them all. I consider myself unique and sexual and I no longer believe in sexual distinction to be partners in life.Traditional sex distinction handed down by generations I consider as rubbish. I just express myself and would rather be called sexual and unique.You can be sexual and choose partners in life whether male or female which doesnt matter. You can choose a male as your partner in life and pay services of surogate wife to bear children for same sex partners Samson

I ENJOYED READING THAT, I ALSO COULD HAVE WROTE IT. I TOO AM MARRIED AND WHEN MY WIFE IS AWAY, I GET OUT ALL OF MY HIDDEN DILDOS, PLUGS, VIBES ETC. SOMETIMES EVEN A TRIP TO STORE FOR A CUCUMBER. SHE HARDLY EVER GOES AWAY, SO WHEN SHE DOES, I TAKE FULL ADVANTAGE. LAST TIME SHE WAS AWAY, I FUCKED MYSELF FOR SEVEN HOURS. I WAS SORE THE NEXT DAY, BUT WELL WORTH IT. I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY PERSON THAT EVER DID THIS. DO YOU KNOW OF ANY WEBSITE OR FORUM OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT? I WOULD LOVE TO TALK TO OTHERS WHO ARE LIKE THIS... JUST TO SEE IF SOME OF MY OTHER THINGS I DO IS NORMAL WELL NOT NORMAL BUT ALSO DONE BY OTHERS? I STARTED WATCHING GAY PORN ETC. I AM NOT GAY AT ALL YET I HAVE FANTASIES OF A BIG COCK IN MY ASS AND CUMMING IN ME ETC steelersguru

There is something about your site that keeps me cumming back and back again. I've found something here which is better than viewing pictures of cock (which is what I was searching for when I came here). It is about finding that there there are other people like me. A community. Thanks. I have always been in str8 relationships but had the occasional sticky moment with guys. Also, COCK fills my fantasy life. I had a brief relationship with a married couple and was able to make love with the guy and taste his spunk. I was never properly fucked by him (just cockhead into ring, no deeper) and I never fucked him. I think of him often and wish we had taken the plunge. I wrote the following a while ago:I went with a friend to see a few of the films in the 2004 London Lesbian and Gay Film Festival. They had an effect on me. I laughed and I got aroused and I felt sad and I felt anxiety. There I was in the theatre and I was surrounded by mostly guys and most I knew would be interested in the on-screen sex in more than just an intellectually detached way.  Like me. So there was also a feeling of belonging too.  Certainly, we laughed together as a man. I realised something about myself. I admitted something to myself. I prefer men.  It's not that I don't like women, but I am attracted by men first, women second. Fact.  Period. It's not like "Oh gosh, I never knew", more about recognising and owning myself, my behaviour, my interests. It's about desire and possibility and heartbreak, about hope and fear, about self-esteem and self-acceptance. I don't feel gay, don't identify with "gay", don't want to be associated with "gay", yet if I prefer my own sex for sex, what choices do I have? Love the site - long may you prosper amar

I can't put my finger on exactly what it was, but there was something. I'd moved on just a little on my journey to get over my hangup about gay sex, and I began to be a bit less frightened of the sexual organs, and penetrative sex itself Roy

I am a gay identified bisexual man in a loving sexual relationship with my best friend. A statuesque (6ft) beautiful sexy woman of 40. I enjoy giveing her the greatest sexual pleasures of her life and feel that my experiences with men have in fact helped me become a more effect/sensitive lover of women Chris

im not gay but do enjoy a man massage and what i have read on your site is one of the truest statments i have ever read thanks for being honest" Simon

men are sacred and beautiful! what a sad shame that we dont get the respect that is due to us. I am a bisexuell guy and have always been turned on by the male body! no wonder so many of us love cock! where else is there to go!? I'm so glad that so many men feel the same way as I do.what's the big deal!!? I've seen so many men in the course of my life looking at me in that way(by the way I am a very good looking muscular hairy all in the right places guy!) I have learned that it is okay to be gay or bisexual(I am the latter)it's human nature right!? ron

Seb, one main reason why I do not love this site is because your assuming someone is gay or straight by what they tell you. If a man enjoyes both men and women he is by nature a bisexual. Anyway you slice it, the deffinition means what it means. No one is going around arguing about how an oak tree should be called something else so why change a simple term that means something very specific. homosexual means you like the same sex, hetero means you like the opposite, and bi means both, its very black and white. I myself could never physically be with a woman, because I am what you would call a homosexual, I also know men who have tried with other men and it didnt work, that would be heterosexuality, and there are reasons for it lol. I just think that its a bit uneducated to say " well, im gay but I like to have a go at it with women every now and then" or " well im a str8 man who likes men on the weekends" when you do it is your own choice, how much you do it is your own choice, but the fact that you do it at all is your desire and that is a part of your sexuality, as much as that might bother some people. the main reason men go and have sex with other men and then say they are straight is because first of all....we buy it and support it, and second, because anything else but the bi or gay lable sounds better to them, its their way of excaping the word because they think it means something negative and they dont want to deal with the burdens and adversity that come along with it. in other words...they are scared of what it means to be a bisexual man. I am only offended because too many people are slapping lables on themselves that do not fit and its like a white guy in 10th grade walking around acting like he is black or like he invented hip hop culture. I can say I am asian till I am blue in the face, but it will never change the fact that I am italian..lol peace.

I am Gay and I feel like you motherfuckers are making fun of us and there is nothing wrong with being a Homosexual just a fucking bigot I am 22 and I am pretty sure that The Lord did not create me with any heterosexualiy and being gay is not a lifestyle it just is what you add to your life is a life is a lifestyle picture's, clothe's People. Not againt's it however some people that prefer both just identify their Sexual Orientation By well Bisexual and society does not create anyones Sexual Orientation people eather choose to life a lie or live honestly however from what I have seen and experienced most heterosexuals both genders try to force and insist that their Sexuality is the best and the only way it is the end of 2009 it is time for people of all nations to get educated about things they know little or nothing about and quit spreading misinformation and noise polution in short either your going to be honest about who you are or be a fucking liar but don't exploit gay sex and then try with all your heterosexual might to call it something else and men who have sex with women are not gay I am gay I love women I have a great relationship with many of them it is just not sexual please just say your sexual but don't try and blur the lines between straight sex and gay sex there is a difference you made me loose my hardon I hope all the men talking this honesty can be true to themselves and have a wonderful sex life and God created Gay sex and it is great!!!!! Amaron Townsend

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