heteroflexible

Heteroflexible

Heteroflexible is an excellent term. It seems to be the closest match to my own personal feelings. This is a great web site and full of useful information and entertainment. Tommy

Hey there, I'm bisexual, and have a friend who claims he is 100% straight..if not a bit homophobic, but think this is just projection. He is the most well dressed guy in college, and (to me) the most attractive..he has so many mannerisms common to gay men.. Basically, how do i talk to him about sex - having some fun together?what is the best method to get guys interested in male/male relief? Thanks for you time, J

Im a gay man and have only had sexual relations with str8 men. Im not sure why. I know that some say that if you have sex with men then your not str8 but gay. Well I know a lot of str8 men that have sex with men on occasion. Emotionally they are attracted to women and dont want that kind of relationship with another man. Just the sex.Well recently the brother of my sisters husband came to visit over the Xmas holiday. Im 42 yrs old and he is 22. We have known each other for 6 yrs and have always been buddies. But this time he came to visit things changed between us and we had sex twice. Afterwards it was very confusing for me. Im not sure if I crossed a line that I should not have since he is so much younger than me and is family by marriage. We have talked about it and hes fine with everything. We are closer now as friends then we were before. But I still sort of feel guilty. Anonymous

Hey there, I'm bisexual, and have a friend who claims he is 100% straight..if not a bit homophobic..but think this is just projection. He is the most well dressed guy in college, and (to me) the most attractive..he has so many mannerisms common to gay men.. Basically, how do i talk to him about sex - having some fun together?what is the best method to get guys interested in male/male relief? Thanks for you time, J

I reckon that everybody is different and that they can decide for themselves how they want to label themselves (if they do!). Sexuality is complex and people don't necessarily fit into neat little boxes of gay, straight or bi. It's fine if you feel like you do, but not everyone does. Life isn't black and white for all of us. One of my favourite things about this site is exactly what you dislike - why should Seb or you or I or anyone speak for others - to tell them who or what they really are? How can anyone say that for anyone else? Who decides what the truth of someone else is? Jamie

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This is a great site! Just stumbled across it and may well ahve found my spiritual home! I don't like these gay and straight labels, yet what's a person to do in a world where labels are the norm that is NEVER questioned? I actually identify as gay, seeing as how I like men about 90 percent of the time, but that other 10 percent is problematic for my gay friends. they seem to think i'm in denial about who I am or what I am when I tell them I fancy women too, be it only 10 percent of the time! Actually, though, I don't fancy the average gay bloke. I like my men manly and aggressive, as real men are meant to be...2bigbadwoofga

When someone ask me if I am straight, gay or bisexual, I tell them I am neither of them all. I consider myself unique and sexual and I no longer believe in sexual distinction to be partners in life.Traditional sex distinction handed down by generations I consider as rubbish. I just express myself and would rather be called sexual and unique.You can be sexual and choose partners in life whether male or female which doesnt matter. You can choose a male as your partner in life and pay services of surogate wife to bear children for same sex partners. Samson

Do you have to be gay to enjoy a good fuck of a magnificent hairy arse hole such as yours? I think not. I've got one that looks a lot like yours and I totally enjoy getting a big one driven home into it and then going home to my woman. I may find her mouth draining a hairy pussy. Gay? Straight? Words words signifying nothing, cock in the arse signifying pleasure. The last 2 men I was with claimed to be staight... the last one especially he licked my balls carefully and tenderly and when I got totally undressed I felt his tongue in my crack and when I returned the favor he simply offered his hairy arsehole to me and when I mounted him he took my tenner with sighs of pleasure ... not pain. Long slow stokes brought us both to Nirvana. Not a virgin but clinging to his myth. Bless him and those like him, I seek them out Loring