i need help...

i need relief! every day is the constant battle with what i want.. and what i beieve is right. In less than a month i will be an 18yr old with a deep secret. im afraid im gay...i hav had a girlfriend for 18 months now and i cant connect with her. being raised a christian and still being one, i am so confused.. streched.. lost..i dont know what to do, or where im at? i live in south brisbane australia and need answers. as all this is the biggest secret of my entire life, i keep discreet. plz help. mitch

Mitch, Being gay is a blessing. God has created many of us as gay, and all that God creates is beautiful. I would suggest you first come to accept that within yourself. Give yourself time. I would suggest that honesty really is best. Thank God for making you special. Never be ashamed of yourself, for you are beautifully made. Unfortunately some people have decided that since gay people are different, what they do is wrong. Hardly. God knows what he is doing better than people. Learn to celebrate and embrace who you really are. I hope you find support--maybe call a local gay support center that can give you some guidance, or a trusted friend. Everything will be alright. Trust that God in his wisdom knew what he was doing when he created us beautiful gay people. I hope all the best for you. John

For starters, sort out your feelings and desires and decide which is true. I doubt you are gay, at all, if you posted your true feelings. I don't understand why you think you are gay. You have a girlfriend with whom you can't connect, but you say this is due to your religion, not your sexual orientation. That's certainly possible. What secret? You don't way if you want to experiment with men. If that is the case, then set aside your religion and discover what/who you are. Then DON'T worry about giving yourself a name. Just make the best of what you find you are, don't worry about the Bible, be assured, no one can open any Bible and read to you the words of Christ on the subject of homosexuals. Leviticus was done away with at the crucifixion, and all the new testment prohibitions may well have been part inspiration part opinion by cloistered monks who hated the fact they were horny all the time. Robert

Mitch, Just relax. You have plenty of time to figure this out. You do not have to decide--just explore and be open to the possibilty of what is right for you. You will or probably already know in you heart. It is okay to be gay and there is help out there I am sure even downunder. Look for a gay and lesbian youth group for support and for help about coming out if you decide to do so.. Gary, USA

you know deep inside yor heart which is the right answer. in this life we are answerable to only ourselves. life your life for you. do what makes you happy. in many years to come you will know you made the right decision. its hard when you think how family may react but even if they react badly you are still family they will understand in time. Remember, there is nowhere in the bibly where it says homsexuality is wrong..only interpretations people put on it. you go mitch. i really do wish you all the best, i have been there myself you will get through it a stronger and better person..honest. wanna chat then get in touch... dave keeton

HEy Mitch I kmow how you feel i was raised a chiristian too but around 7th grade i started realizing men in a different way but it was hard for me to believe that i was gay. but then i started realizing that god loves everybody and if he was the true god they talk about in the bible then youll go to heaven. But if you think your gay come out to close friends,theyll love you no matter what but stay in your comfort zone dont think now that your gay you have to come out to the world take babysteps and youll be alright. any more questions yoiu can email me Jake P

find a close friend like I have that you trust and will be friends with for the rest of your life. david and jonathon were best friends and love each other in all ways. you still date women and should marry and have children, but you should have a specal friend to get away with and enjoy man to man time. You can come here and we can be best friends and enjoy each other from time to time. Peace, jase

Dear Mitch the soloution lies in choices that truly makes you happy, in other words the highest thought you can possibly have about yourself, you as a happy individual. Those that love you will still love you, though it may take them time time to remember this. Those that fear for you and their feelings towards will judge you, however this has everything to do with them and their ignorance of who you really are. A Human Being DESERVING of Happiness and Love in their life always. When you are eventually living the Life you choose you will not only be Happy but a whole lot wiser and stronger Man anyone will be happy to know. You'll get there Mate Love and Respect. S

www.jasonanddemarco.com are tremendous gay christian music artist and can help you. I am gay and a christian and came out 12 years ago and am glad I did. You can be gay and christian. Don't dispair and whatever you do, don't give up. Bob

Hi Mitch, I can understand your dilemma ,i suggest you get in touch with your local (MCC) Metropolitan Community Church and have a talk . It is OK to be a christian and gay as i am, and Jesus does not discriminate its only the main line christian churches . Have a look at this web site and listen to the first 3 minute video www.wouldjesusdiscriminate.com and also the sydney MCC website is www.mccsydney.org  Best Wishes, Dick Watson

being gay isnt an evil thing, ive been gay all my life and i am happy with who i am. my boyfriend loves me and i love him. give it a try and you may be the happiest you have ever been. buzz

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