can't reach my point of no return (ejaculate)

hello i'm a 23 year old guy who's having problem with my sexual life. i have a boyfriend and i enjoy having sex with him and he loves what i do to him, but i can't reach my point of no return (ejaculate) not even masturbating, been penetrated or penetrate my boyfriend and i know that he feels bad because i don't reach my climax. He tries to help me and saying to me that i have to focus and consentrated but i can't. please if you can help me in anyway or tell me what could be the problem write me the information or if i need a sexologist or something like that tell me please please please....thanks for the time reading this boring letter, sincerely and cordialy juan

seb cox replies : Let me begin by saying this is not in any way a boring letter. It's fasinating. If you have never ejaculated this could be caused by either an emotional issue, or a physical one. Physical reasons could include becuse your tired or maybe due to the effects of alcohol or some medication you may be taking. On the other hand an emotional issue could be something as simple as anxiety about ejaculation. Either way i suggest you go along to your G.P. and expalin to him your situtaion. Ask him to refer you to an urologist. The urologist should be able to discover the cause of your problem, and reassure you about possible solutions. While waiting for your appointment continue to have sex with your boyfriend. But do not put any pressure on yourself to ejaculate. Don't focus or try to concentrate just have the wildest sex you have ever had.

I came once again, like the spring breeze;

I rose like the sun visible to all.

I am the Sun in mid-summer, contrary to the old season;

I have brought liveliness and joy to gardens.

A thousand ring doves are searching for me in their songs.

A thousand nightingales and parrots are flying in my directions.

The news of my arrival reached the fish in the sea; 

The ferment of the sea created a thousand waves. Rumi/Cox

i find that if you cross your ankles and rub your knees to gether ejaculation arives much earlier for those times when they are just nipping to the shop. hot stuff

Sit on a chair and get an anal plug or a dildo. Then put your hands on the sides of the chair and push yourself up while sitting on the dildo, so that you are no longer sitting on the chair, and you should ejacualte if you hold it long enough. Sounds weird i know, but try it. Trust me it's an awesome ejacualte! sheister

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