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Hi Seb, Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy the various sections. I love the masculine manner you approach the issue of male sexuality and the sexuality that exists between men, gay or str8. You seem to deal with male sexual hunger in a confident and mature fashion. It has always been my argument that everyone, men and women, should have sex with members of both sexes--preference aside--if for nothing else to experience a different type of body, a different type of pleasure. I'm jealous. I'd like to be as confident and able as yourself. I'm 32 and going through a sexual awakening. Sex up until now has been mostly in response to someone else´s desires...reactionary. I want to sort this, be more confident and defining in my wants and desires. I want to learn to be fucked, to receive. The only time I have enjoyed anal sex is when I have been high on coke or X, and boy did I LOVE it, but only when high, and that has been only 4 times in 12 years of gay sex. Would or could you teach me? I have a fantasy of being pounded, big cock, or cocks, mouth, ass, whereever. Not so original I know, but its what I'd like. I visit your site often, as I said before, and often times I become so horney I have to go for a wank in the office toilet. I'm in France now, but am thinking about a long weekend in London sometime in November. If so I'll make an appointment so you can show me all I was never shown. I have complete confidence in you, your site has sold me, excited me, it's had me in the fucking toilet here at work, wanking!!! Maybe one day you'll fuck me....D

"May your cock be blessed. May you realize that your prostate is a faithful and beautiful friend of your soul. May you be happy and joyful and recognize that your anal orgasms are sacred thresholds. May you realize that getting your prostate massaged enables you to celebrate the universe and the mystery and possibilities in your presence here. I am based in London near to the angel tube station, which is one stop from Kings Cross on the northern(black) line. If your coming for a session I can meet you at the tube station. May the God of Love bless you.  " Seb Cox

"We have to learn how to connect our sexual pleasures to our spiritually. We need to be taught this skill; we need guides to show us how. If we don't our spirituality gets made up for us by other people, and our sexual pleasures are far too fucking sacred for us to allow that do happen. I'm older than you, this is wisdom speaking. As they say in East london... iSN'it. Seb Cox

You must have a conscious desire for an erotic experience, and to explore your sexuality in a spiritual way. 

You  will be nurtured for the duration of the session. 

Extraordinary attention is given to your manhole, cock and your other erotic zones. 

You will be encouraged to be aware of your breathing during the experience. 

You will have my undivided attention.

Your erection is always welcome but is not required to reach a highly  erotic state.

Music, please bring your Favourite CD if you can.

Further Reading

My cock is magick...Bi/ Billy Bob

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